How free, how happy and safe can sex possibly be?

Sex is one of the most powerful and healing experiences that we can have.

At the same time sex is one of the most confused, confusing and even traumatized topics that we have, both on the individual and the collective level.

When we manage to heal those wounds – when we inquire on all those cliches, myths and concepts that have been passed onto us – sex opens up again to us, totally new and with breathtaking beauty.

Here you find my contribution to this „sacred un-learning“ – our collective adventure back into true intimacy with oneself and each other, back into safety, self-love and natural ecstasy.


The best foreplay ever

»We secretly wait for the time after crises... But wanting to overcome times of crisis is rather how we created the problem instead of how we will be able to fix it.«
April 27, 2020/by awi

How To Become A Better Lover

»We cannot escape from the challenge of selflove when we want to be a good lover for somebody else.«
March 20, 2020/by awi

Are men too powerful? – #SexAndEssence

»Ending patriarchal violence will not work by further disempowering of men but by nourishing the essence of male power...«
March 4, 2020/by awi

Are men unsensitive?

»Yes, our culture punishes men for being unsensitive. But it punishes them even more for being sensitive...«
February 7, 2020/by awi

Is abortion good or bad?

»Cultivating our own opinions around abortion is not only a waste of time... it makes us miss when we are needed as support!«
February 7, 2020/by awi

Sex And Essence

Are men doing better in patriarchy than women?
I am a woman.…
November 26, 2019/by awi

#TantraOfPorn Episode 3 – How to overcome shame and guilt

»One big source for suffering on all levels is suffering from…
August 4, 2019/by awi

#TantraOfPorn Episode 2 – Underneath the surface of hardcore images…

»Hard core porn is an unconscious western way of tantra.«

August 3, 2019/by awi

#TantraOfPorn Episode 1 – Could porn be a healing thing?

"If our culture would deal with porn in a way that is helpful...…
August 2, 2019/by awi

About Surrender #4

In about Surrender #3, we changed our thinking and images regarding…
April 14, 2017/by Ilan

About Surrender #3

The question is: How can we fix our boundaries?
So far,…
April 14, 2017/by Ilan

About Surrender #2

In the first article About Surrender#1, we explored…
April 14, 2017/by Ilan

About Surrender #1

About Surrender…
It could all be so simple.
As we take off…
April 6, 2017/by Ilan